http://nlpmonthly.com NLP Training - Online & Interactive Courses - Techniques to Certification Sun, 20 May 2012 20:39:52 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-calibrate-your-decisions/ http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-calibrate-your-decisions/#comments Wed, 25 Jan 2012 13:00:12 +0000 Wayne http://nlpmonthly.com/?p=172 What’s more powerful than calibrating other people’s states? Calibrating your own! I’m sure you’ve made some good decisions in the past. I’m also sure you’ve made some not-so-good decisions. The second best thing about those not-so-good decisions is that they are in the past. The best thing is that you can learn from all of [...]


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]]> http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/recalibrate-often/feed/ 0 http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-youve-got-to-see-it-to-see-it/ http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-youve-got-to-see-it-to-see-it/#comments Mon, 23 Jan 2012 13:00:49 +0000 Wayne http://nlpmonthly.com/?p=162 Calibration requires sensory acuity. Without being able to actually see what is there, you can never calibrate against it. The more we see what is actually there through artists eyes, the more we can begin to tell two states apart. As we tell states apart, we can start using that information to make better decisions. [...]


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]]> http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-techniques-2-times/feed/ 0 http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-pov-1-2-3/ http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-pov-1-2-3/#comments Fri, 20 Jan 2012 13:00:57 +0000 Wayne http://NLPMonthly.com/?p=152 Point of view is another area in which we can exhibit flexibility and gain control of a situation. There are three basic “positions” you might wish to take to start expanding your flexibility when it comes to point of view. First position is looking at the situation from your own point of view. Most people [...]


]]> http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-pov-1-2-3/feed/ 0 http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-flexible-attitude/ http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-flexible-attitude/#comments Thu, 19 Jan 2012 13:00:08 +0000 Wayne http://NLPMonthly.com/?p=150 Much like the flexibility of behavior, we can exhibit great flexibility in attitude as well. This can show up in many ways including responses, internal processes, beliefs, values, interpretations, framing, and more. Responses — Without getting into the rant about reactions versus responses, we have many choices when it comes to responding. We gain great [...]


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]]> http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-the-most-flexible-wins/feed/ 0 http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-visual-auditory-kinesthetic-oh-my/ http://nlpmonthly.com/nlp-training/nlp-101-visual-auditory-kinesthetic-oh-my/#comments Mon, 16 Jan 2012 13:00:51 +0000 Wayne http://NLPMonthly.com/?p=142 Half of sensory acuity is our senses, you know, those five channels we receive information through. Seeing, hearing, touching, smelling, tasting. Also known as a 4-tuple, VAKO/G, or just visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory, and gustatory. Now, since we don’t go around sniffing and licking other people (unless we’ve been hanging out with the dogs too [...]


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